Treatment of Parents as per
Quran & Hadith
HOLY QURAN
SAHIH INTERNATIONAL’S TRANSLATION
2: 83. And [recall] when We took the covenant from the Children of Israel, [enjoining upon them], "Do not worship except Allah; and to parents do good and to relatives, orphans, and the needy. And speak to people good [words] and establish prayer and give zakah." Then you turned away, except a few of you, and you were refusing.
Aur phir hamne liya bani Israel se pukhta ahad ki tum allah ke siway kisi ki ibadat naa karna, aur maa baap se husne sulook karna, aur rishtedaaron se, yateemo aur miskeeno se. Aur tum kehna logo se achhi baat, aur namaaz kayam karna aur zakaat dena, phir tum phir gaye tum mei se chand ek ke siway, aur tum phir jane wale ho.
2: 215. They ask you, [O Muhammad], what they should spend. Say, "Whatever you spend of good i s [to be] for parents and relatives and orphans and the needy and the traveler. And whatever you do of good – indeed, Allah is Knowing of it."
Ae Nabi, log aap se poochte hain ki, kya kuch kharch Karen? Aap keh dein, “jo maal tum kharch karo so maa baap ke liye aur rishtedaro ke liye , aur yateemo aur musafiro aur mohtajo ke liye, aur tum jo neki karoge to use beshak Allah jaan ne wala hai.”
4: 36. Worship Allah and associate nothing with Him, and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans, the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther away, the companion at your side, the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allah does not like those who are self-deluding and boastful,
Aur Allah ki ibadat karo aur uske saath sahareek na karo kisi ko aur achha sulook karo maa baap se aur rishtedaro se aur yateemo se aur mohtajo se, nazdiki padosi se aur door ke padosion se aur paas baithne wale (ham majlis) se aur musafir se aur jo tumhari mielk ho, beshak Allah use dost nahi rakhta jo itrane wala, bad maarne wala ho.
6:151. Say, "Come, I will recite what your Lord has prohibited to you. [He commands] that you not associate anything with Him, and to parents, good treatment, and do not kill your children out of poverty; We will provide for you and them. And do not approach immoralities – what is apparent of them and what is concealed. And do not kill the soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed] except by [legal] right. This has He instructed you that you may use reason."
(Ae Rasool)Aap keh dijie “Aao, mai padh kar sunaoun jo haram kiya hai tum par tumhare rab ne ki us ke sath kisi ko shareek na thahrao, aur walidain ke saath nek sulook karo, aur qatl na karo apni aulaad ko muflisi (ke darr )se, hum tumhe rizq dete hain aur un ko bhi, aur behayaiyon ke kareeb na jao jo un mei khuli ho aur jo chupi ho, aur jis jaan ko Allah ne hurmat de hai use qatl na karo magar haq par, yeh tumhe is ka hukum diya hai taaki tum samjho.
14:41. Our Lord, forgive me and my parents and the believers the Day the account is established."
Ae hamare rab! jis din hisaab qayam hoga(roze hisaab) mujhe mere maa baap ko, aur momino ko baksh de.
17: 23. And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him,and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.
Aur tumhare rab ne ye hukum farma diya ki us ke siway kisi aur ki ibaadat na karo, aur maa baap ke saat husne sulook karo, aur un mei se ek ya phir dono tumhare saamne budhape tak pahuch jayen to unhe “uff” tak na kaho, naa he jhidko, aur un dono k saath adab se baat karo.
17: 24 And lower unto them the wing of submission and humility through mercy, and say: “My lord! Bestow on them your mercy as they did bring me up when I was young.”
Aur un(maa baap) ke liye azizi ke saath baju jhuka do meharbani se aur kaho, Ae mere rab unpar raham farmaa jaise unhone bachpan mei meri parwarish kee thi.
29:8. And We have enjoined upon man goodness to parents. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. To Me is your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.(Only time when we can disobey them still deal them with kindness)
Aur hamne insaan ko maa baap se husne sulook ka huqum diya hai, aur agar wo tm pe zor dale ki tum kisi ko mera shareek banaye jis ka tumhe koi ilm nahi, to unka kehna naa mano, tumhe meri taraf laut kar aana hai, to mai tumhe zarur bataunga who jo tm karte the.
31:14. And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination.
Aur hamne insaan ko taaqeed ki us ke maa baap k bare mei (husne sulook ki) us ki maa ne kamzori par kamzori (jhelte hue) use pet mei rakha, aur do saal tak uska doodh pilaya, ki mera shukr kar aur apne maa baap ka ki tumko meri taraf (he) laut kar aana hai.
31:15. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in [this] world with appropriate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me [in repentance]. Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.
Aur agar wo(parents) tumhare sath koshish Karen ki tum mere sath kisi aur ko shareek karo, jis ka tumhe koi ilm na ho to un ka kehna na maano, aur duniya (ke maamlaat) mei unse achha sulook karo, aur us raste ki pairavi karo jo rauze kare meri taraf, phir tumhe meri taraf he laut kar aana hai, so mai tumhe aagaah karunga jo kuch tm kiya karte the.
46: 15. And We have enjoined upon man, to his parents, good treatment. His mother carried him with hardship and gave birth to him with hardship, and his gestation and weaning [period] is thirty months. [He grows] until, when he reaches maturity and reaches [the age of] forty years, he says, "My Lord, enable me to be grateful for Your favor which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents and to work righteousness of which You will approve and make righteous for me my offspring. Indeed, I have repented to You, and indeed, I am of the Muslims."
Aur hamne insaan ko maa baap ke saath husne sulook ka hukum diya, uski maa use takleef ke saath (pet me) uthai rahi aur us ne use taqleef ke saath jana, aur us ka hamal aur us ka doodh 30 mahino mei(Hua) yahan tak ki wo apni jawani ko pahucha aur hua (40) saal ka to usne arz kiya: ae mere rab! Mujhe taufeeq de ki mai teri nemat ka shukr ada kar sakoon jo tune mujh pe inaam farmaai aur mere maa baap par, aur ye ki mai nek amal karun jise tu passnd kare, aur mere liye meri aulad mei islaha kar de (nek bana de), beshak maine teri taraf tauba ki aur beshak mai farmabadaron mei se hoon.
FROM HADITHS
Sahih Al-Bukhari
1.505:
Narrated `Abdullah: I asked the Prophet "Which deed is the dearest to Allah?" He replied, "To offer the prayers at their early stated fixed times." I asked, "What is the next (in goodness)?" He replied, "To be good and dutiful to your parents" I again asked, "What is the next (in goodness)?" He replied, 'To participate in Jihad (religious fighting) in Allah's cause." `Abdullah added, "I asked only that much and if I had asked more, the Prophet would have told me more."
Abdullah se riwayat hai : Maine Allah k Rasool(saw) se poocha “Kaun se aamaal Allah ko sbse pyare hain?” Unhone jawab diya, “Salah ko awwal waqt mei padhna”. Maine poocha, “Uske baad kya?” Unhone Jawab diya, “Apne maa baap ki baat maanna”. Maine poocha ,“phir kya?” Unhone jawab diya Allah ke raaste mei Jiddo jahad karna. “Abdullah ne kaha”, “Maine bas itna hee poocha , agar mai aur poochta to Rasool(saw) aur jawab dete”.
3.821:
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet was asked about the great sins He said, "They are:−−
(1) To join others in worship with Allah,
(2) To be undutiful to one's parents.
(3) To kill a person (which Allah has forbidden to kill) (i.e. to commit the crime of murdering).
(4) And to give a false witness."
Anas(ra) se riwayat hai ki: Huzoor(saw) se poocha gaya ki bade gunah kya hain, unhone farmaya:-
1. (1) Allah ki ibadat mei kisi aur ko shareek karna.
2. (2) Apne maa baap ki nafarmani karna.
3. (3) Kisi ka qatal karna .
4. (4) Aur Jhooti gawahi dena.
4.248:
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Amr: A man came to the Prophet asking his permission to take part in Jihad. The Prophet asked him, "Are your parents alive?" He replied in the affirmative. The Prophet said to him, "Then exert yourself in their service."
Ek shaks Huzoor saw k paas jung mei jane ke liye ijazat lene aaya. Aap ne poocha “Kya tumhare maa baap zinda hain?”. Usne kaha haan. Aapne kaha “”To jaa kar unki khidmat mei lag jao.”
Book 73, 8.4:
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Amr: Allah's Apostle said. "It is one of the greatest sins that a man should curse his parents." It was asked (by the people), "O Allah's Apostle! How does a man curse his parents?" The Prophet said, "'The man abuses the father of another man and the latter abuses the father of the former and abuses his mother."
Rasool saw ne farmaya “Ye bahut bada guna’ah hai ki koi apne maa baap ko bhala bura kahe. ” Aapse logon ne poocha “Ae Allah ke rasool(saw) bhala koi apne maa baap ko kaise bhala bura keh sakta hai ?” Aapne jawab diya ki wo kisi doosre ke maa baap ko bhala bura kahe aur wo badle mei wo uske maa baap ko bhala bura kahe”.
Sahih Muslim
Bk 32, Number 6180:
Abu Huraira reported that a person came to Allah, 's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and said: Who among the people is most deserving of a fine treatment from my hand? He said: Your mother. He again said: Then who (is the next one)? He said: Again it is your mother (who deserves the best treatment from you). He said: Then who (is the next one)? He (the Holy Prophet) said: Again, it is your mother. He (again) said: Then who? Thereupon he said: Then it is your father. In the hadith transmitted on the authority of Qutalba, there is no mention of the word" the people".
Abu Huraira se riwayat hai ki ek shakhs Allah k Rasool (saw) ke paas aaya aur poocha: Mere husne sulook ka sabse bada haq kiska hai? Aapne jawab diya “Tumhari maa.” Usne poocha Uske baad. Aapne jawaab diya “Tumhari maa.” Usne poocha uske baad? Aapne jawaab diya “Tumhari maa.” Usne poocha uske baad? Aapne jawab diya “Tumhara abba”.
Bk 32, Number 6186:
Yazid b. Abu Habib reported that Na'im, the freed slave of Umm Salama, reported to him that 'Abdullah b. 'Amr b. 'As said: There came to Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) a person and said: I owe allegiance to you for migration and Jihad seeking reward only from Allah. He (the Holy Prophet) said: Is
one from amongst your parents living? He said: Yes, of course, both are living. He further asked: Do you want to seek reward from Allah? He said: Yes. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Go back to your parents and accord them benevolent treatment.
Bk 32, Number 6189:
Abu Huraira reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as saying: Let him be humbled into dust; let him be humbled into dust. It was said: Allah's Messenger, who is he? He said: He who sees either of his parents during their old age or he sees both of them, but he does not enter Paradise.
Abu huraira se riwayat hai ki Rasool Saw ne farmaya: Wo shaks dhool mei mil jaye; wo shakhs dhool mei mil jaye. Logon ne poocha “Ae Allah ke rasool(saw) kaun hai ye shakhs?” Aapne farmaya: Jo apne parents ko budhape mei dekhe, magar jannat naa ja sake(unki khidmay kar ke).
Sunnah Abu Dawud
Book 8, Number 1448:
Narrated Mu'adh al−Juhani: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: If anyone recites the Qur'an and acts according to its contents, on the Day of Judgment his parents will be given to wear a crown whose light is better than the light of the sun in the dwellings of this world if it were among you. So what
do you think of him who acts according to his.
Huzoor (saw) ne farmaya: Agar tumme se koi Qura’n padhta hai aur uske hisaab se apni zindagi basar karta hai, uske maa baap ko kayamat ke din aisa taj pehanaya jayega jiski roshni suraj ki roshni se bhi behtar hai.
Book 14, Number 2524:
Narrated AbuSa'id al−Khudri: A man emigrated to the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) from the Yemen. He asked (him): Have you anyone (of your relatives) in the Yemen? He replied: My parents. He asked: Did they permit you? He replied: No. He said: Go back to them and ask for their permission. If they permit you, then fight (in the path of Allah), otherwise be devoted to them.
Ek shaks Rasool (saw) ke paas Yemen se aaya. Aapne poocha Kya Yemen mei koi tumhara rishtedaar hai? Usne jawab diya haan mere maa baap hain. Aapne poocha kya tmne unki ijazat le hai? Usne kaha nahi. Aape farmay:Wapas jao unke paas aur unki ijaazat lo jakar. Agar wo ijazat dein to Allah ki raah mei jiddo jahad karo nahi to unki khidmat mei lage raho.
Book 41, Number 5123:
Narrated AbuUsayd Malik ibn Rabi'ah as−Sa'idi: While we were with the Apostle of Allah! (peace_be_upon_him) a man of Banu Salmah came to Him and said: Apostle of Allah is there any kindness left that I can do to my parents after their death? He replied: Yes, you can invoke blessings on them, forgiveness for them, carry out their final instructions after their death, join ties of relationship which are dependent on them, and honour their friends
Abu Usayd Malik ibn Rabi'ah as−Sa'idi se riwayat hai: Hum Allah ke rasool (saw) ke saath baithe the tabhi Banu salmah ka ek shakhs aaya aur bola: Ae Allah ke Rasool koi aisi neiki hai jo mai apne maa baap ke liye kar sakta hoon unke inteqaal ke baad bhi? Aapne farmaya: Haan unke liye maghfirat ki duaa maang kar, unki aakhri khwahish ko poora kar ke, jo log unpe(parents pe) dependent the unse rishta naata jode rakh ke, aur unke(parents ke) doston ki izzat kar ke.
Abu Dawud
Book 8, Number 1531:
Narrated AbuHurayrah: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: Three supplications are answered, there being no doubt about them; that of a father, that of a traveller and that of one who has been wronged.
Abu huraira se riwayat hai ki Rasool [saw] ne farmaya ki 3 tarah ki duaon k qabool hone mei koi shaq nahi: jiske saayh julm hua ho, musafir ki dua aur baap ki dua bête ke liye.
By Mohammed Tariq
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